Real Techniques. Real Instructors. Real Confidence
The Selfy Stick was designed to be carried — but knowing how to use it is what makes the difference. That’s why we partnered with trained self-defense instructors, security professionals, and real-world defensive tactics experts who carry the Selfy Stick themselves.
On this page, you’ll find demonstrations and breakdowns from people who’ve spent decades teaching everyday men and women how to stay safe — not just in a dojo, but in parking lots, on sidewalks, and in the situations nobody plans for. These aren’t scripted promos. These are real techniques you can learn, practice, and trust.
Whether you’re brand new to personal safety tools or you’ve been carrying EDC gear for years, this is where you learn to make your Selfy Stick work for you.
Matt pasquinilli
Matt Pasquinilli is a Self-Defense Instructor, Security Professional, and Director of Security at Jupiter Christian School in South Florida. With over 30 years of experience training everyday people in practical protection, Matt breaks down why Selfy Stick earned a place in his personal carry – And why it’s one of the most effective force multipliers for Real-World Self-Defense.
411 outdoors
411 Outdoors breaks down real-world applications: Hammer strikes to vital areas, Pressure Control Techniques, and how to put together combinations when it matters most. Whether you carry the 6″ compact or the 8″ extended version, learn how to make every strike count
Not just another self-defense tool
The edc world talks. here’s what they’re saying…
“A tool my audience needs to see.”
When Selfy Stick reached out, the decision was easy—this is exactly the kind of gear the EDC community is looking for. For people limited by local carry restrictions, having a legal, effective option matters. The compact 6″ model stands out for its discreet profile and solid grip, delivering serious impact without drawing attention. Whether it’s hammer strikes or precision targeting, this tool does the job.
Master Gary Hernandez
Master Gary Hernandez brings over 41 years of martial arts expertise and real-world defensive tactics to the Selfy Stick. Creator of the RDT (Realistic Defensive Tactics) Cane Self Defense System, Gary breaks down practical self-defense techniques for anyone — no prior training required. From grip fundamentals and striking mechanics to improvised weapon tactics and urban survival strategies, learn how to carry with confidence and defend with purpose. Whether you’re new to EDC or a seasoned practitioner, Gary’s step-by-step approach will help you get the most out of your Selfy Stick when it matters most.
SEE THE SELFY STICK IN ACTION
“If your hands are wet, if it’s raining, you’re sweaty, even if you get blood on your hands… you’re going to have a good hold.”
Watch the Selfy Stick in action — from wrist grabs and redirects to pressure point strikes and body manipulation. See how both the 6″ and 8″ models work as a force multiplier in close-quarters self-defense. Whether you’re dealing with arthritis, aging hands, or just want a reliable backup tool in your EDC rotation, this video shows you how to make every strike and leverage point count.
Self-Defense From the Driver’s Seat — Selfy Stick Techniques with Master Gary Hernandez
Master Gary Hernandez demonstrates how to use the Selfy Stick as a self-defense tool inside your vehicle — where access to other options may be limited. From defending against someone reaching through your window to using pressure points and strikes from the driver’s seat, Gary covers real scenarios with practical techniques. He also breaks down a use most people don’t think about: the Selfy Stick doubles as an emergency glass breaker — whether you need to escape your own vehicle or help someone trapped in theirs. If you carry a Selfy Stick in your EDC rotation, this video shows you exactly where to keep it and how to deploy it when seconds count.